Dear Sam,
I was so sorry to hear that things have been tough since you started at your new school. It is completely normal to feel like an outsider at first, but I am confident that you will find your feet soon.
To make friends, try initiating small conversations with the people sitting next to you during lessons. Asking for help with a specific task or borrowing a pen is a fantastic, low-pressure way to break the ice. You could also offer to share your notes if you notice someone else struggling; kindness is always a great bridge to a new friendship.
I also strongly suggest looking into the school’s extracurricular programme. Joining the debating society or the football team would be a brilliant move, as these groups naturally foster a sense of community. Being involved in shared activities means you have a ready-made topic of conversation with your teammates.
Most importantly, remember to be patient with yourself. Do not feel pressured to find your 'best friend' immediately. Just focus on being yourself, and you will eventually attract the right crowd. Stay positive, and let me know how next week goes!
Best wishes,
Alex